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November 11: Reflecting on Sacrifice, Compassion, and Living Authentically
This week is a meaningful one for me—not only because it’s Remembrance Day, but also because it’s my birthday week.
I’ve been feeling especially reflective, thinking about what this day of remembrance really means, and how it connects to living a life that feels true to who we are.
Remembrance Day is a time to honour the men and women who have sacrificed their lives to protect our freedom and way of life. Like so many, I’ve attended ceremonies over the years, and my husband has been part of them as well.
Each year, I’m moved by the stories and memories of those who gave everything. But as I’ve thought more about it, especially this year, I find myself wondering if there’s more to remember.
This day invites us to reflect not just on those who fought for our country, but on the shared human cost of all conflicts, on all sides. With family members who have been on both sides of past wars, I understand how complex it can be. It’s easy to see things in black and white, but the reality is often more complicated. The losses, the pain, and the sacrifices aren’t limited to one “right” or “wrong” side—they’re a human experience that crosses borders.
As I think about this, I also think about the way we view each other today. There are conflicts around the world that seem almost impossible to fully understand, let alone solve.
But perhaps the first step is simply to listen and try to understand. No matter where we come from or what we believe, we all carry our own struggles, and maybe, if we could see that more clearly, we could begin to bridge the divides between us. I don’t have all the answers, but I believe it starts with a willingness to see each other’s humanity.
This year, as I celebrate my birthday, I’m also reflecting on how I want to live going forward.
How can I align my own life more authentically? How can I make choices that feel true to who I am? I think part of it is trying to be more open-hearted, more compassionate, and willing to understand perspectives different from my own.
Three Points to Ponder This Week:
- How can we honour everyone who has experienced loss in conflict, not just those who share our views or values?
- Are there assumptions or biases we can let go of to create a deeper understanding and compassion for others?
- How can we align our own lives more with kindness, understanding, and the values we want to live by?
This Remembrance Day, let’s remember not only the brave sacrifices, but also the shared humanity behind each story. And as we reflect, can we find ways to live more compassionately and more authentically, both with ourselves and with others.
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